Saturday, December 31, 2011

Farewell 2011, may 2012 be the year of prosperity

If you followed our traveling blog I left off while we were still in New Zealand finishing up the first leg of filming on The Hobbit. If you did not follow the blog a quick summary of the first half of the year…


Our Billionaires Crew

Zach and I jumped at the opportunity to work on the catering crew for The Hobbit. It paid well and got us directly involved with the people who made our favorite movies – The Lord of the Rings trilogy. The work was intense with long hours and alternating six day work weeks, but we learned a lot and made good friends along the way. Moving to Wellington also brought us Tommy, who is now a very dear friend of ours. The whole experience now seems a bit surreal, but incredible. We miss Wellington, our friends, and the adventures we had in New Zealand.


Zach and I at the Vail's house in Montana

In early July we said goodbye to Billie and the Billionaires Catering crew and headed back to the US. In a whirlwind we visited my family in Santa Cruz while car hunting, drove my niece to Montana to visit my mom, Eastern Montana, and my dad, Russian relatives and my friends in the Flathead. Then Zach and I and a solid Montana crew spent several nights in the bliss of Hood River to take part in Graham and Marcella’s wedding. After that we came to Portland where, for the first time ever, Zach and all of his siblings had a real siblings’ reunion. We followed that up by celebrating Zach’s parents’ 40th wedding anniversary in Tacoma. We visited some of Zach’s friends and his old stomping grounds before holing up in his brother, Travis’s, house to figure out what our next step would be.


The Farnes Family

Things are tough for everyone right now and I won’t try to claim we aren’t among the people who are struggling. For those few days in August we talked and talked and wrote pro and con lists for various potential living situations. I won’t go into details, but my health hasn’t been that great over the past few years. We thought we’d get help in New Zealand, but it turned out my visa limited the kind of coverage I could get from the government. Moving back health care was our primary concern as well as being near people we loved and trying to start a lifestyle more suited to us. All that and we have a wedding to plan.

In the end we chose Portland. Zach, for various reasons including health benefits for me, took a break from kitchen work to get a job in the meat department of a local high-end market called New Seasons. He is excelling quickly and working hard to learn, as always. I was fortunate enough to have a restaurant within my San Francisco restaurant group in Portland where my old boss is the general manager. He hired me right away and I have been waiting tables at Irving Street Kitchen now for the past few months. A good friend from Blowfish in San Francisco works there as well. After much searching and couch surfing (thank you Tiffani and Travis and Graham and Marcella!) we found a place to live. We also made a couple mini trips to Whitefish to find our wedding venue for next summer. So much to figure out in such a short time period!


My mom, Zach, and his sister, Tiffani being silly outside on Christmas

Though things are stressful for us, we are looking forward to 2012. It will bring some new babies amongst family and friends and our wedding. My hope is it will also bring us improved health via whatever miracle necessary, richness in undefined ways, and happiness.

1 comment:

  1. happy new year, sweetest hearts. i'm in vegas with this wee new grandson and garrett and tina and i realize what a miracle life is. this little guy knew when he needed to come, despite all odds, and is here in the loving arms of his family and each new day is just that....new. he sleeps, eats, poops and pees and every once in a while, opens his eyes to drink in this new world. lots of lessons there. he depends on others, but brings such joy as we serve him and love him. i guess life just amounts to that: joy in the discovery of each day and opening our eyes to drink in the beauties of the day and landing on those we love; our struggle to survive depends on others, but we can give back in ways that only we can delivery; pressing on a day at a time and living, not just surviving. there's joy in the journey and i hope we never stop looking for the joy...and the beauty. i love you two so much and wish you the happiest of all years...something incredible started it out (jameson's birth)....something wonderful will happen right in the middle of it (your wedding)and each day before, between and after will be blessed. promise.

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